Saturday, February 01, 2014

Don't get it twisted

Saturday, February 1
 (Spirit & Truth magazine)
The first woman bishop in the worldwide Anglican Communion was the Rt Rev Barbara C. Harris (b. 1930)

Don’t get it twisted
Rev. Dr. Durrell Watkins
Senior Minister, Sunshine Cathedral

“…Humankind was created in the divine image.” Genesis 5.1

Sometimes, we confuse being made in God’s image with God being made in ours. We imagine God as a dictator (according to our image of power); or, we imagine God as white, or male, or American, or heterosexual (or asexual with a pathological bias against gays & lesbians). We often imagine God hating all the things and people we find objectionable. But God isn’t a reflection of our socially conditioned selves; we are part of the Wholeness and Perfection that is divine. When we see ourselves in God’s image instead of imagining God constrained by human conditions, we seek “power with” rather than “power over.” When we trust our goodness, we just don’t need others to be “bad.”

Today I will try to remember to live a bit more into my divinity. 

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Blessed are those who mourn...

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."
Jesus (Sermon on the Mount)  
In Good Times & Bad, Keep Praying...
by Rev Dr Durrell Watkins, Senior Minister

Many people have been in my thoughts and prayers lately. There are those who are on our prayer list (where they stay for four weeks at a time) as well as those in our congregation whose circumstances are known to me. I've been very mindful of some who are looking for work. I've been thinking of some who have been recovering from (or preparing to have) medical procedures. There have been injuries. There has been grief over the death of cherished loved ones (friends, relatives, even pets). Over and over my thoughts are filled with the words, "God bless him" or "May she soon discover joy again" or "I affirm blessings for them, trusting that divine Love holds them and will not let them go."

Sometimes the prayers seem to contribute to miracles. Sometimes, the prayers seem to offer comfort. And sometimes the prayers seem to do little other than to help the one praying feel as if loving concern prayerfully expressed might somehow make a bit of difference that cannot yet be felt or seen. Still, in prayer I remember that "there's not a spot where God is not."

When we remember our unity with God, we are much more likely to experience hope, joy, and fulfillment; and even when outcomes disappoint, there remains the divine gift of inner peace and self-worth which were not given to us by life's circumstances nor can they be taken away by life's circumstances. As the Apostle Paul said, "If we live we live for the Lord; if we die we die with the Lord. So, whether we live or die we are the Lord's!" In more contemporary verbiage we might say, "I am never separate from divine Life. No matter what happens in life, I am Eternity expressing in time; I am an individuation of perfect, universal Wholeness."

Today I have been praying for one of our deacons and his life-partner. I heard this morning that John was suddenly very ill. Updates throughout the day were consistently discouraging. Finally, this evening, I received a call saying that John made his transition from this experience of life to the next. His partner, Deacon Ed, is one of our faithful diaconal care-givers who provide pastoral care and comfort to congregants when they are in need. Today, my heart is heavy for Deacon Ed and I continue to pray for his comfort, for his strength, for his pain to soften over time into beautiful memories, for his grief to become a healing process that leads him gently back to abundant joy.

Perhaps you have been blessed by Ed reading the gospel or praying for our various intentions in worship. Perhaps you have been encouraged by him or have known about his ministry to seniors. So, I am asking you to hold Deacon Ed in your heart in the days ahead, and bless him with your love.
Dear God, the light that we knew as 
John shines throughout eternity, forever blessed by the Love that you are. And so we give thanks even as we ask you to hold 
Deacon Ed in your tender care and keeping and offer him the comfort he needs in the days to come. Amen. 

Monday, January 27, 2014

On-going Leadership Success


On-going Leadership Success
by Rev Dr Durrell Watkins 
Those who led an organization into crisis or decline are unlikely to be the ones to lead them out of it without a radical change in attitude and a willingness to learn and try new things. When the organization exists to protect the comfort and preferences of a few, or the privilege of even fewer, or to serve the "leader(s)" who are supposed to be serving/leading the organization, then turning around the organization is unlikely. In fact, if the ones charged with casting a vision and/or implementing the policies and procedures will not admit that a turn around is even needed, then continued decline, increasing irrelevance, and eventual extinction is all but certain.
Leaders who succeed beyond a season seem to be those who are continually learning, who are keeping up with trends as they are (rather than trying to recreate a past that is forever gone), who are willing to constantly assess the health of the organization (based on verifiable metrics) and make course corrections as needed, who are training, equipping, raising up, and attracting new leaders, who are outwardly focused and service minded, who are making the most of technological advances, who are optimistic without depending on magical fixes, and who are transparent (without becoming defeatist) about both successes and challenges, plans and setbacks, victories and disappointments.
If a leader can cast and continually articulate a compelling vision, continually train and equip other and new leaders, constantly learn and adapt and even reinvent herself/himself as needed, and deal with the difficult facts while also holding to a higher and more promising truth, then that leader is less likely to burn out and will be more likely to remain effective for a very long time.
Leaders who are unwilling to do these things will be cease to be leaders and will become place holders until they become monuments to the past, until they become mourners who are missing the movement or organization they once led before it gasped its last breath.
I learned long ago, that all newcomers to a church need "a friend and job." If people are not invited into relationship and given meaningful work to do (which will employ their skills and talents and personalities, which will add to a vibrant, flexible, changing and growing community), they will not stay, or if they stay they will not fully engage, and they certainly won't be part of inviting others to give the community a try. Growth requires new people, and new people have to be welcome and valued and allowed to be part of a viable future rather that simply honoring a past which is not part of their experience.
Growth means change.
Growth means newness.
Growth means learning.
And growth depends on effective leadership. As leadership experts have said over and over, everything rises and falls on leadership, and leadership is influence, and influence is part of relationship.
If leaders are not leading forward, they are not leading at all, which means they aren't really leaders (they are managers, and probably micromanagers, and what they are managing is or will soon enough be in decline).
If a message is life-giving, you'll want more people to hear it. To get more people to hear it, the organization will have to become healthier, and the health of organizations depend on healthy leadership; and healthy leadership will attract new leaders even as the "old guard" are constantly learning and growing themselves.
"Behold, I make all things new!" Revelation 21.5
"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing...do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland." Isaiah 43.18-19
"As congregations shrink, the members who would be the most help turning them around often are among the first to go: the energetic, outward-focused people with an urgent sense of purpose and good skills for group decision-making." Dan Hotchkiss